Я имею право сказать: меня это не интересует.

Манипулятивное предубеждение: Я должен стараться внимательно и эмоционально относиться ко всему, что случается в мире. Наверное, мне это не удастся, но я должен стараться этого достичь изо всех сил. В противном случае, я черствый, безразличный.

* Так оно и вышло: в скором времени появилось " нейролингвистическое программирование". – Прим. пер.

* Герой одноименного телевизионного сериала, популярного в США в 1955-1959 годах. – Прим. ред.

* Досл. " собака сверху" и " собака снизу" (top dog, under dog) – роли в детской игре типа " царя горы". Для обозначения подмеченного Перлзом явления межличностного позиционирования существуют также сходные отечественные понятия " пристройка сверху" и " пристройка снизу". – Прим. пер.

[1] Erich Fromm. " Man Is Not a Thing", Saturday Review, March 16, 1957, pp. 9-11.

[2] Timothy Leary. " The Interpersonal Theory of Personality", New York: The Ronald Press Company, 1957.

[3] J.F.T.Bugental. " The Search of Authenticity", New York: Holt, Rinehart & Winston, 1965, p. 298.

[4] Там же, р. 299.

[5] Albert Ellis. " New Approaches to Psychotherapy", Journal of Clinical Psychology, Monograph Supplement, 1955, p. 11.

[6] Martin Buber. " The Way of Man", Chicago: Wilcox and Follett, 1951, p. 16.

[7] Jay Haley. " Strategies of Psychotherapy", New York: Grune & Stratton, 1963, pp. 89-90.

[8] Frederick Perls. " Ego, Hunger and Aggression", London: George Allen and Unwin, 1947, p. 108.

[9] Там же, р. 178.

[10] Erich Fromm. " The Art of Loving", New York: Harper & Row, [1956] 1962, p. 26.

[11] Eugene Burdick. " The Ninth Wave", Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1956, p. 90.

[12] Dan Greenburg. " How to Be a Jewish Mother", Los Angeles: Price/Stern Sloan Publishers, 1965, pp. 15, 16.

[13] Там же, р. 17.

[14] Е. L. Shostrom. " Personal Orientation Inventory" (San Diego: Educational and Industrial Testing Service, 1964).

[15] См. David Riesman. " The Lonely Crowd" (Garden City, N.Y.: Doubleday Anchor Books, 1950).

[16] " A Test for the Measurement of Self-Actualization", Educational and Psychological Measurement, XXIV (1965), 207-18.

[17] Abraham H. Maslow. " Toward a Psychology of Being" (Princeton, N.J.: D. Van Nostrand & Co., 1962), p. 30.

[18] Abraham H. Maslow, " Innocent Cognition (as an aspect of B-Cognition)", Notes on D-Psychology (La Jolla, Calif.: Western Behavior Sciences Institute, August 31, 1961). pp. 1-2.

[19] Kahlil Gibran " The Prophet" (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1923), pp. 70-71. Used by permission.

[20] Gene Sagar, неопубликованная рукопись.

[21] Erich Fromm. " The Heart of Man", ed. by Ruth N. Ashen (New York: Harper & Row, 1964), pp. 52, 132.

[22] Abraham H. Maslow. " Motivation and Personality" (New York: Harper & Row. 1954), p. 222.

[23] Там же, р. 291.

[24] " The Neurotic Personality of Our Time" (New York: W.W.Norton & Company, 1937), pp. 270-75.

[25] " The Search, for Authenticity", p. 209.

[26] Marie Robinson. " The Power of Sexual Surrender" (New York: Doubleday S. Company, 1959), pp. 209-12.

[27] Alan W. Watts. " The Wisdom of Insecurity" (New York: Random House, 1919), pp. 9-10.

[28] " Faces of Envy", Review of Existential Psychology and Psychiatry, 1 (Spring, 1961), pp. 134-135.

[29] " Ego, Hanger and Agression", p 224.

[30] См. Gary Herbertson. " Maxie Dunham".

[31] Edward Stanford Martin. " Mixed".

[32] Karen Horney. " Neuroses and Human Growth" (New York: W. W. Norton & Company, 1950).

[33] Dorothy W. Baruch. " How to Live with Your Teenager" (New York: McGraw-Hill Book Company, 1953).

[34] Там же, р. 69.

[35] Там же, р. 11.

[36] См. R.L.Williams, ed. " The Young Americans" (New York: Time-Life Books, 1966), p. 70.

[37] Karen Horney. " Self-Analysis" (New York: W.W.Norton & Company, 1942), p. 283.

[38] William G. Cole. " Sex in Christianity and Psychoanalysis" (New York, Oxford University Press, 1955), p. 26.

[39] См. " The Art of Loving", p 88.

[40] Из неопубликованного " Psychology of the Learning Process".

[41] Там же.

[42] См. " A Ministry in Need of New Rights", p. 85 в " The Young Americans".

[43] Там же.

[44] Ellis P. Torrance. " Guide Creative Talent", N.J., 1962.

[45] См. " Toward a Psychology of Being".

[46] Е.L.Shostrom. " Caring Relationship Inventory", 1966.

[47] Деструктивные и конструктивные стили борьбы, представленные в этой главе, разработаны Джорджем Бахом, Калифорния. См. G.R.Bach. " The marital Fight Game", Life, May, 17, 1963.

[48] См. Abraham H. Maslow. " Eupsychian Management", 1965.

[49] P.Steiner. " The Stevenson Wit and Wisdom", 1965.

[50] Rollo May. " Existence" (New York: Basic Books. 1958).

[51] Carl R. Rogers. " Client-Centered Therapy" (Boston: Houghton-Mifflin Company, 1959).

[52] Harry S. Sullivan. " The Interpersonal Theory of Psychiatry" (New York: W.W.Norton & Company, 1953).

[53] Eric Berne. " Transactional Analysis in Psychotherapy" (New York: Grove Press, 1961) and Frederick Perls " Gestalt Therapy" (New York: Julian Press, 1951).

[54] Timothy Leary. " Interpersonal Diagnosis of Personality" (New York: The Ronald Press Company, 1957).

[55] Viktor E. Frankl. " Man's Search for Meaning" (New York: Beacon Press, 1963), p. 171.

[56] Joseph Wolpe. " Psychotherapy by Reciprocal Inhibition" (Stanford: Stanford University Press, 1958) and Albert Ellis. " Reason and Emotion in Psychotherapy" (New York: Lyie Stuart, 1962).

[57] Sidney M. Jourard. " The Transparent Self" (Princeton, N.J.: D. Van Nostrand Co., 1964), p. 21.

[58] Victor Victoroff. " The Assumptions We Live By", Etc., XVI (1958), pp. 17-18.

[59] Charlotte Buhler. " Values in Psychotherapy" (New York: Free Press, 1962).

[60] Otto Fenichel. " The Psychoanalytic Theory of Neurosis" (New York: W.W.Norton & Company, 1945).

[61] Woodrow Wilson. " When a Man Comes to Himself", The Century, XL, June, 1901, p. 268.